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How to Pet a Cat

Many people think cats don’t like to be touched—but this isn’t true! Cats are quite selective about receiving affection. To learn more, keep reading this #LivelongTip: 

It’s essential to let the cat take the initiative when starting a session of petting. Watch for its body language to detect any signs of discomfort, and always allow the cat to walk away, meaning let it decide when to end the petting session. Never exceed their limits. 

Petting your cat is easier than you think. Begin by offering gentle, long strokes aligned with the direction of the fur, never against the grain. Always follow the same direction and avoid slapping, hitting, or squeezing—even with good intentions. During these initial sessions, be as gentle and affectionate as possible. 

Start with the head, “combing” with your fingertips over the top of the head and the neck. You can also gently massage the upper and middle back, starting at the scapulae and ending near the thoracic vertebrae. Likewise, lightly scratch the cheeks and underside of the chin, but these areas are usually reserved for closer companions. 

You also need to know where NOT to pet a cat. Avoid petting the belly, tail, legs, or paw pads—they usually dislike these areas, and you’ll likely see signs of displeasure. If you ignore their signals, the cat may escalate with a scratch or bite. 

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